JM: Dear Dr.
arrogance,
some time I read his letters and increasingly appreciate 'his answers, so' I am writing to submit my problem, but I get the feeling that his answer to me Garber 'point.
Anyway. My name
JM, I spent a bit from the 30 ', but my maturity' sentimental, 'yet at the level of a teenager at first cooked, then I am writing to submit the case to my teenage love, so to' say 'ricicciato " accomplice telematics.
Throughout high school, or from 13 to 17 years (I went to school a year before), I was in love with a boy of my own school, but more 'than me for 4 years. The
him in question is obviously not worthy of a look and I liked making out with his girlfriend at the time (I hate this day, I was indeed happy to know that a few years ago the city had changed ') sitting on the ledge of a window of long corridor. While
avendoci not then never spoke, in addition to age their hormonal attraction ', I was convinced that he was just the man to me, we were bound by an affinity' elective which we could not resist, but in reality 'I was wrong. (Same error I committed a few years ago, with another one that I thought related to me by affinity 's so as not to see how high we could not tie us into a loving communion of the senses, but even then not fought nail). Returning
teenage love, the fact that I thought was the right man for me, spiced by the fact that all the efforts made by me and my network of trusted friends always failed miserably to present it, I throw 'in a sink pessimism cosmic fatigue from which I shot. Over the years, of course, I did not think more 'to him, throwing myself headlong into bankruptcy, but other stories I ever heard from him came that they saw him engaged in activities' which I confirmed in my feeling:
you ', and' the man for me (and this last sentence, my dear Doctor, the hum in the tone of the famous song by Mina).
Until ', by chance, I came across in his blog, complete with a small "contact me" and that I jumped on the chair and I thought "but it' s obvious that I write", but then I wondered, 'but' then the case? ". And what to write? And most of all for what? Of sexual intercourse? And if I discover that knowing the true actually 'I do not like, does not attract me "that way"? In order to match the intellectual? It ', but simply reports brain! We would also like to move on from time to time!
Well, I am confused.
my old age 'I should let go, the teenager and' left in me, however, wants to play. In reality, 'my fear' that shattered a dream to see me company for so long: after the fall of communism and 'always difficult to see down their myths.
loves ghost during adolescence are quite common. especially among females, to be honest. boys are more hormonal: maybe They saw it on the canalis picture, but while dreaming of his chin lay between the thighs of her companions.
the girl, however, has an almost instinctive tendency to identify a target pretty (to some royalties you can not escape, nor the opinion of friends) and then on to imagine, idealize it, shape it. strong, romantic, bloody, sweet love. longer the object of desire is far more the game is easy, better manage the construction of the ghost, the more the girl falls in love. Simon Le Bon, bonovox, then maybe robbie williams, Clemente Mastella today or something, Scamarcio?
build using a phantom model to a real person, leaving by the star, is no different. just a bit 'more difficult. just choose a guy who frequent the same environment but that is not part of the same group: bingo! a classmate in another class. maybe bigger, more mature and more inaccessible.
sure, than Simon Le Bon and everything more difficult. on the one hand there is the perception that this person is real, however for this it is perceived - often erroneously - accessible, near impossible. on the one hand you have the chance to see her in the flesh, watching her in the newspaper, on the other hand you may suffer to see that maybe has stories, frequent other girls, real life.
all this can easily lead to a strained love ghost for a much longer time than can be done with a star of music or movies. or by Clemente Mastella.
in your case, jm, so he must have formed a perfect feel it like the man in your life and feeling of being a soul mate, unconcerned that he might actually be a completely different person. the ghost has browned and is fully superimposed on the real boy, hiding it.
then, the weather turns illusions memories.
today, a part of you knows that that guy does not exist, at least not so. another part of you, Instead, he has cut out some word or gesture of the time to make a collage that matches perfectly with the fantasy that you find yourself in fifteen years after re-examined. accomplice probably randomness, intertwined with a tank but your current emotional situation.
write them, jm
at best be able to recognize the differences between him and his image. more likely, you'll want to do it again before you open your eyes. if he wishes, make good a fuck. As for you, do not expect much more, but already only get out of it would definitely be a great success.
the girl, however, has an almost instinctive tendency to identify a target pretty (to some royalties you can not escape, nor the opinion of friends) and then on to imagine, idealize it, shape it. strong, romantic, bloody, sweet love. longer the object of desire is far more the game is easy, better manage the construction of the ghost, the more the girl falls in love. Simon Le Bon, bonovox, then maybe robbie williams, Clemente Mastella today or something, Scamarcio?
build using a phantom model to a real person, leaving by the star, is no different. just a bit 'more difficult. just choose a guy who frequent the same environment but that is not part of the same group: bingo! a classmate in another class. maybe bigger, more mature and more inaccessible.
sure, than Simon Le Bon and everything more difficult. on the one hand there is the perception that this person is real, however for this it is perceived - often erroneously - accessible, near impossible. on the one hand you have the chance to see her in the flesh, watching her in the newspaper, on the other hand you may suffer to see that maybe has stories, frequent other girls, real life.
all this can easily lead to a strained love ghost for a much longer time than can be done with a star of music or movies. or by Clemente Mastella.
in your case, jm, so he must have formed a perfect feel it like the man in your life and feeling of being a soul mate, unconcerned that he might actually be a completely different person. the ghost has browned and is fully superimposed on the real boy, hiding it.
then, the weather turns illusions memories.
today, a part of you knows that that guy does not exist, at least not so. another part of you, Instead, he has cut out some word or gesture of the time to make a collage that matches perfectly with the fantasy that you find yourself in fifteen years after re-examined. accomplice probably randomness, intertwined with a tank but your current emotional situation.
write them, jm
at best be able to recognize the differences between him and his image. more likely, you'll want to do it again before you open your eyes. if he wishes, make good a fuck. As for you, do not expect much more, but already only get out of it would definitely be a great success.
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